Hey I'm an OFFICIAL boyfriend and I'm not talking, "go to movies, have random sex before finding an excuse to break up like" but more, "spending time at the theater (oh God), meeting the parents, then having great sex" tho I stated it, the sex thing is still an issue and IO don't mind waiting. (Geez, I'm even starting to sound like one). A little insight, I'm really bound by alot of my traditional Zimbabwean culture so meeting the parents is a HUUUUUUGE thing, like marriage stage and the whole sha-bang kinda ran up and at full force slapped me real hard to the point where I couldn't even close my jaw. A friend of mine said their finally glad to see that I'm growing and really respects how I'm still one of the few guys she respects for taking time to get to know the girl before making any major steps.......that does not however mean, 2 years is the appropriate time, I just have trouble making up my mind. I was tired of popcorn relationships anyway.

Wow I've got so much on my mind and it is pure BLISS I'm tellin' you. The is in love for the first time so forgive me if I'm making such a big deal out of it, .......coz it is.